Welcome!


I'm so thrilled to have you here! These self-guided online courses were developed as a way to make my educational content more accessible to all users. The pre-recorded video lessons can be accessed any time and can easily be broken out into bite sized servings to suit your schedule and learning style. Plus, your purchase grants you lifetime access to the content, meaning you can revisit it as often as you find yourself wanting to brush up on your skills.

Each online course features all of the content in my live workshops, with the benefits of a more leisurely pacing and a few extra diversions and musings that never seem to fit into the live runs. I've also included links to relevant resources where appropriate, and each lesson has a comment section where we can discuss any questions that come up for you along the way.

My workshops are designed to feel inclusive and welcoming to audiences with diverse range of experiences and abilities. They aspire to be as inspirational as they are funny, and hope to actually teach you a thing or two along the way. So join me and learn the skills you need to improve the communication in your relationships and bring more creativity and curiosity into your play.


- Bex


Your Instructor


Bex Caputo is a Philadelphia-based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been speaking professionally about sex and kink and conferences, colleges, and sex shops all along the east coast for the past 6 years, and has been a loud-mouthed, sex-positive kinkster since long before that. Bex’s teaching style prioritizes inclusivity, accessibility, harm-reduction, and humor. He uses storytelling to engage the audience, and metaphors and pop culture references to break down complex topics into digestible concepts.

While Bex has written and spoken about a wide variety of topics in sex and kink over the years, his passion lies in nerdy, nuanced conversations of kink and sexual communication. He loves discussing the psychological benefits of subspace, musing over the spiritual significance of D/s dynamics, and unpacking the intricacies of why that thing is so hot–and then figuring out how to ask for it!