Written for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this discussion includes my best tips for both new & experienced subs alike.


Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this nearly three-hour discussion includes my best tips for both new and experienced submissives alike. We’ll discuss your responsibilities as a bottom to both your top and yourself, share tips for pain management, give advice for accessing subspace, and arm you with the tools you need to be the subby slut your dream dominant craves.

This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels. Although the class is presented for submissives who bottom, we welcome tops, bottoms, and switches of all stripes who are interested in learning more about the skills that go into being a great bottom.

Course Curriculum


Flexible Pricing Options


Your Instructor


Bex Caputo is a Philadelphia-based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been speaking professionally about sex and kink and conferences, colleges, and sex shops all along the east coast for the past 6 years, and has been a loud-mouthed, sex-positive kinkster since long before that. Bex’s teaching style prioritizes inclusivity, accessibility, harm-reduction, and humor. He uses storytelling to engage the audience, and metaphors and pop culture references to break down complex topics into digestible concepts.

While Bex has written and spoken about a wide variety of topics in sex and kink over the years, his passion lies in nerdy, nuanced conversations of kink and sexual communication. He loves discussing the psychological benefits of subspace, musing over the spiritual significance of D/s dynamics, and unpacking the intricacies of why that thing is so hot–and then figuring out how to ask for it!